I loved reading your comments on my Fireproof post. I've fallen in love with that movie so much I went out and bought it this weekend, as well as The Love Dare. Can't wait to dig in!!! I decided to buy the movie so I could watch it again, but also to share with anyone that hasn't seen it! If you are interested let me know!
That being said, I thought I would share with
you a few things I do to help let Matt know that he is special to me. My hopes are that you gain some ideas (as I did from you) and use them to enhance your own relationships!
* Matt and I make a point to always kiss hello and goodbye - even if one of us is just running out to the corner for milk.
* I always ask about Matt's day and I sincerely am interested in listening to his response. It's not just a
rhetorical question. However, we make a point not to talk about work/adult things at the dinner table. We
try to focus our dinner conversation on the things the children can join in on.
* Matt occasionally travels and I try to make sure he comes home to crisp clean sheets and a freshly made bed. Small, I know....but if I traveled I would find it heavenly!
* Since I am home during the day I try very hard to make sure that Matt comes home to a clean home and often dinner is on the table, or at least underway. Some of you may find this very old fashioned...but I love that I am able to do this for my family.
* Pray. Pray. Pray. This is most important. I will admit that I am horrible at having a set time for devotions and praying...I tend to do it all day long at random times. I've found that for me the best times to pray are while I am driving and during quiet times with my children. I also started something new recently that I love (I read about it in a book) - as I am folding clothing I pray for the person's clothing that I am folding. This has worked out great!
I hope these little things inspire you, as I was inspired by your ideas. I am not perfect and I definitely have days when I am not on my "A" game. There are definitely those days that Matt comes home to the house in complete disarray and I just laugh (or pull out my hair) and say, "WE ARE EATING OUT TONIGHT!!!!!" But my intentions are to always make our home a place of comfort and peace.
On a side note...for those of you that are working I KNOW how hard it is to work full time and then get a nice meal on the table. A few years back (when I was working) my friend Kim and I got together and cooked all day one day (made double and triple batches) and then froze the meals. This was fun for two reasons...One, my friend and I had a great day of drinking wine and cooking together. Two, I had a freezer stuffed full of meals that I could thaw, throw in the oven, and still feed my family a great homemade meal (often on the table just as Matt got home)!!! I do have a few pointers to share if you are interested in this...e-mail me!