How Do I Want My Children To Remember Me?

I recently removed Facebook from my phone.  I'm sure I'll eventually put it back on there (I always do), but for the time being I needed it to be gone.

The reason?

Quite simply, I was looking at it too often.  Posting too often.  Looking for some sort of validation and reinforcement from people that I really don't care much about.  It felt good to have people say, "You're a good mom" or "That's a great idea!"  However, those that I DO care about (my husband and children) were seeing me attached to that phone way too often.  

It's not how I want my children (or husband) to think of me.  That phone means NOTHING to me when compared to what I have standing in front of me on a daily basis.  Honestly, some days I wish cell phones were never invented. 

My priorities needed to shift.   Facebook Mobile needed to go. 

I'm making a conscious effort to be present in the lives of those I love.  To listen wholeheartedly for understanding, instead of listening simply to respond.  To take my time and not rush life quite as much as I have been.  

My children don't always listen to what I say, but they never fail to imitate what I do.  I want them to see me placing value on the things that truly matter....them, their daddy, our home, and most importantly God. 

So starting today I'm taking a deep breath....slowing down...and putting that damn phone away.

Xoxo...

Jamie